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Instead, relax and be confident in who you are and who He has made you to be. When promised total anonymity, the men in my research for were honest about something awkward to discuss but important to know.The brain wiring governing attraction simply functions differently for a man than a woman; most men have to be visually, physically attracted before they can see a woman as anything other than a friend."For me, body language goes a long way," Mike said.
Since she knew I'd studied how men think, she approached me for advice knowing that it might not be "her" but still wanting a reality check just in case there was something she was doing (or not doing) that was preventing her from winning a man's heart.We got to be good friends over the course of six months, did a lot of things together in groups, went to lunch after church with just each other, and spent a lot of time hanging out — all with absolutely no signals from him as to whether he was thinking about anything more. I wanted to something happen, especially since he was about to graduate!Didn't he realize that if he graduated without any kind of definition to our relationship that the distance would sink us?What's more, guys can often tell you're subconsciously expecting a Superman that they can never live up to, so they back away. "You can't force a woman into a right standing with God, no matter how cute she might be," Mike, a single guy in his mid-20s, told me recently.
He added, "I think truly godly women don't try to get attention for being that way.But here I am, more than 20 years later, and there are no prospects in sight.