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Often you may find that you can almost read your man’s mind to know exactly what he wants and vice-versa. This becomes especially complicated during rough sex as both of you will be consumed with passion, making it harder to focus on how your partner is feeling.
This is why I always advise that you use a safeword with your man. And if you don’t already have a safeword that you use with your man, then discuss it with your man and make sure to choose one you both understand.
If you're reading this right now, you've probably had a moment when you were hooking up with a guy and thought, "God it would be so great if he pulled my hair right now," but it feels so weird to ask someone that — not to mention it can seem legitimately scary to ask someone to be a little rougher with you, but not so rough you end up in your own Asking for rougher sex really does just boil down to having an actual Grown Ups Using Potentially Formal-Sounding Words discussion with your partner. " because that could mean 40 different things and odds are, you'll only want it to mean a very specific 10 things. I can't stress enough the importance of having a pre-sex conversation about your own limits and making sure that he understands them — and I mean really, really understands them, not just "gets the gist". Ask him to tie your wrists above your head and do you missionary style (or he can just hold your hands up there with his hands). If once you get into it you realize "eh, spanking isn't for me" or "ow, too hard! " you need to feel comfortable saying, "back off, bro." Seriously, do not engage in even the slightest amount of rough sex play if you feel like you can't communicate your needs with him.
Tell him you want to be tied up and spanked, no more, no less. So when you say, "I want you to tie my wrists above my head and then fuck me," get out the tie and tell him when it's tight enough but not too tight and then get into the position you want him to fuck you in. Even if it's just a t-shirt or a scarf, have it by the bed so when you ask and he says yes, you can go for it. If you don't know where to start: hair-pulling, spanking, wrist-tying, and blindfolding are popular ones. Don't be afraid to say "Oh hell no" when he's gone too damn far.
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One mistake that can ruin rough sex for one or both of you is not properly communicating to each other what you both want and need in bed.If the first time he puts handcuffs on you, they get stuck and won't close all the way, no big deal.